One of my favorite meals to make....

I love pasta!  Of course, this you can probably tell by the size of my butt.  There is nothing so yummy as spaghetti and sauce.  So I love this amazingly delicious variation on plain old spaghetti.  Tastes divine, super easy, and 100% made from scratch!

And of course, it is even better with home made french bread.  Yummmm........

Yup.  This is dinner tonight.  I can't wait!

Finding Peace

I have started to write a post about ten times now & each time, I don't seem to get through it without changing my mind and deleting.  But I've had some things in my head and in my heart and want to put them down.  2010 was an unsettling year for me.  It was a year that brought me great happines while at the same time, bringing me great sadness.  It was a year where it seemed that my life spiraled out of control to an extent, and a year where I realized that was at a crossroads in my life.  I had some wonderful people come into my life last year.  Sadly, I also had some wonderful people who I cared very much for walk out of my life last year.  That pain is still healing.  As the new year started, and I took some time to reflect on last year, I realized that in many ways, I felt adrift and lost.  I have many wonderful people in my life, but very few who I actually allow to be close to me.  Very few who I actually let inside my walls.  I've learned from experience that taking the chance to let people in often hurts.  But I've also come to realize that until I learn to get past the hurt to let those who matter in, I'll never be truly happy.  I have a quote on my desk that says "Faith is when you close your eyes and open your heart."  I truly believe that.  I just struggle in the execution.

The accident I wrote about below proved to be a turning point for me.  I feel that we were given a miracle that night.  I feel almost like I've been given a second chance.  And that it's time for me to straighten up and figure out what I want in life.  Take control of my life.  Be proactive in making the things that I want happen.  I was fortunate enough to be given a very strong foundation of beliefs growing up.  It's time I go back to that foundation and truly lean on it.  I've been starting to in the last couple of weeks and am remembering the internal peace that comes with that.   I need that peace.  I need the peace that comes from letting go of the people who cause me heartache, no matter how much I still care about them.  I need the peace that comes from knowing who I am and where I'm going in my life.  I need the peace that comes from knowing that I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing.  I guess that's my goal for the year.  Peace.

My Room---finally!

Redoing my room has been a long, ongoing process.  It's not yet totally finished, but it's getting really, really close.  I thought I had a before picture, but I can't find it anywhere.  Thanks so much to my awesome nephew Josh, for all the help with painting and hanging!!

 

Of course, it would be far too simple for the whole room to just be finished.  I still need new blinds, which will be the wide blinds.  My window treatments will be beautiful gauzy curtains that I love & I already have the super cute rods for them.   

 

I picked this mirror out a long time ago & got it for Christmas....I love it and it looks just as good as I thought it would over my dresser!! 

I really love my cute desk and work area!  It's fun to sit there and work and love my organizer board that Josh gave me for Christmas.  It keeps me reminded of what I've got going on and when. 

 The only thing that will make my work area better is when I add this super cute chair!!!!  I love it and am way excited to get it.  

 

And this cute and very comfortable chair will be going in an empty corner of my room.  Paired with just the right lamp, which I am willing to search for, it will make a perfect reading corner!

Oh, and the big thing that I still need to do in my room.....hopefully in the next 6 months or so, my carpet that I hate will be replaced with beautiful cherry wood flooring....and then will begin the long search for just the right area rugs!

I believe in miracles!!!

Saturday night, I set out for a night on the town with 6 of my friends for a birthday celebration!  My birthday had been the Thursday before, and Kara celebrated her 30th birthday on the Tuesday after.  So we headed out for dinner and a movie.  Spirits were high as we headed out in Kara's new van.  As we were traveling down Ferry Butte Road headed towards Pocatello, we were t-boned by someone who ran their stop sign without even slowing down.  It was estimated that she was going about 45 miles an hour when she plowed into us.  We were extremely blessed and know that we not only had angels around us, but were the recipients of miracles that night.  Kara's van had side curtain airbags, which protected all on the side that took the impact from greater injuries.  Dessa's husband is a former police officer.  He told us the next day that he'd never been to the scene of an accident that serious as a cop without at least one serious injury or fatality.  We all walked away from the accident.  Three of the girls were taken in the ambulance to the hospital.  Two were released that night, and Kara, who is 7 months pregnant, was released after being kept for 8 hours for observation.  The only fatality of the night was Kara's van.  Thank heavens it was only something that can be replaced!!

I came away from that night with with even more respect for some amazing ladies than I already had.  Kara, Mica, Angie, Stephanie, Dessa, and Sarah, I love you all so much and am thankful we're all still around!!  If I had to go through that experience, I'm so glad I went through it with you guys!!  

The side of the van that got hit

This is the missing door on the drivers side of the van that is stuck to the front of the car that hit us.  

Pictures taken of the van the next day at the junkyard.  It somehow looks so much worse in the daylight....

My birthday!!!

Last week was my birthday.  I guess I should start by saying that last year was probably the worst birthday I have ever had.  I was so looking to make this year a good one!!  I spent my actual birthday with my mom, who took me to a fantastic lunch, and then we went to the salon together for a girls day!  She got a wonderful new haircut, and I let the amazing Daynna have her way with me!  I got a cut and color, and I told her to do whatever she wanted.  As always, Daynna did an amazing job, giving me a color I adore and a cut I love....and can actually make look ALMOST as good as she did!  For my birthday dinner, we enjoyed some very yummy cake, and then ended the evening with a special someone who surprised me by showing up!  I didn't think he'd be able to make it, so it was a double birthday surprise to get to see him.  It was a really great day!!  And then on Friday.....I got to go out to dinner with two of the most amazing women I know.  How many people can say that over 10 years after graduating from high school, their high school best friends are still their best friends?  I am one of the lucky ones who can say that!  I have been fortunate to have Jenni and Amy in my life for over half of my life.  They are amazing women and I love them both very much!  Thank you ladies for so many years of great friendship and for a wonderful night Friday night!!

  

Musings on a new year

Keeping up on my blog has been one of the things that I've really dropped the ball with the last few months.  As I found the old year wrapping up and getting ready to start a new one, I'm not sure where 2010 went, or what I really accomplished in it.  In many ways, it was both a good year and a bad year, but I'm learning that every single year is that way.  I had some people come into my life that I will be forever grateful for having known.  Some of them will stay in my life forever, and others have already passed through.  Regardless of which they were, they have had a profound effect on my life and helped to change me in positive ways.  I am thankful for the people that help me to shape my life and my choices.
I was fortunate enough to be brought up with very strong beliefs and standards, and parents who were amazing examples of they way they wanted me to live.  In every way possible, my parents emulated their beliefs in their daily actions.  I couldn't have asked for better examples.  Sometimes, when you have something your whole life, I think it's sometimes easy to take it for granted.  If you don't make the daily decisions needed, things can sometimes slip away from you.  I came to a point in my life where I found that happening with me.  I am so very grateful for one person coming into my life very briefly to serve as a living reminder to me of Christlike love and charity.  With one action, he reminded me of things that I had let slip.
At the beginning of 2011, I'm so grateful for second chances, and for the opportunity that I have daily to choose the direction of my life.  I can choose every single day what direction to take my life in and have control over the direction I take.  That's an incredible blessing to me.  And one I choose to take total advantage of in 2011!!!